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Motivating optimism is something that in this Human condition, it gets intercepted.

Here are some of the Barriers....( or interruptions that are possible)

FEAR...
Breaking fear down to many the characteristics, in which fear shows it's face...
It's EGO that brings on these characteristics.

These are a few, Overthinking, thinking perfect is an option, Nerves , negative thinking, and controlling actions.

A situation or story line in your life, that activates these characteristics. I don't call them feelings because that is not what they are. The feelings that you have, can lead to the characteristics, that I brought up. When you feel sad, for instance, you can have each of those characteristics happen.

I am sure many more could be listed. Think about this, from the perspective of the title, of the word that I used as my acronym for my purpose. Raising a child we REALLY overthink it. Imagine if you let love, take it's course and stayed, in the moment. You are giving perspectives to this new being, in this human experience and perfect is another human perspective, that you believe you want to pull
off. Guess what, YOU and that other HUMAN being are already perfect, hence the spiritual being that you ARE !!! It is such a difficult job, passing on things to a human that is changing, growing all the time. So, you can hear thoughts in your mind,
( which is ego) that can be really negative!!

 A TRUE example of a negative thought that I heard, was said in a terrible situation ( nothing to do with parenting)  it was " you took her away from me." One human, really doesn't take another human, from another, circumstances of the Human condition, do. If what you are doing isn't working, IT isn't working and with learning a loving way, to change the situation, motivating an Optimistic CHANGE, without control, is what will work!

How I find that is through the good energy that is in and around me and not giving strength to the bad energy. Which, I realized THAT is motivating OPTIMISM, mentally.