Turn On:

For
A
Usual
Circumstance
ENJOY
TRUELY !!!


A faucet, what a crazy way to come up with something positive, isn't it!! Yet it is completely a acceptable or perfect description of USUAL. ( one of many "usual" areas a person could have, in there life.) Also, I probably picked a Faucet, because I got a brand new one, so a faucet, which could be usual, became exciting to me. I clean houses for an income, financially, for the last 30 years. I am at a sink a good amount of the time, while in any particular home. So, when I go home you would think that is the last place I would want to be. Well, within the last 8 years, cooking and gardening have been strong in my personal life. You might be saying how old is this person. If she has had a job for the last 30 years, she is at the least 50. So, why was cooking not as big, for the first part of this persons life. The answer to that is, I was an unexpected mom at the age of 17. I went into it with all desire to do the very best I could with these hard RESPONSIBLE circumstances. I loved children, I was an Aunt at the age of  7???...and I loved the TITLE of Aunt Susie. It was a compliment to me. A title that meant a lot. I had others looking up to me and loving me. Yet, ROUTINE of motherhood did not at that time motivate routine of great cooking.
 I kind of took on the responsibility, without a LOT of what could be considered RIGID actions with the responsibility.
So, that is the outlook I am attempting to state with my saying "Turn on the Faucet".
I am going to describe how I looked at life as the young mother, after the honeymoon period. During a time, that maybe fear creeped in, to the responsibility, I started to hate "RIGID", "Responsibility"  or what I even labed as the "R " words, that life gives you. So, no more detail is needed there right now, that will be part of future writing or another LONG story, that I will maybe, edit, some day, cause I already wrote it. So, getting by in the kitchen was the choice I made instead of being pretty RIGID. (To respond to the not cooking, much, till 8 years ago.)
We can either go into something with fear and because of that hate the rigidity, of the circumstance or we can go in to it, with .......
Optimism.....
As humans we are not always optimistic. An awareness came one day, When I didn't feel a strong urge of optimism. Even through actively adding that in my life for 30 years. (In fact, I can see how someone with a job of telling jokes, for a living (passing on humor), could even struggle.)
When going through similar to what I had felt other times , which was a loneliness feeling, because of not being around others, ( humans) physically. I then had an empathy with someone  that provides humor, when feeling that which they can also, it can cause an empty space or feeling. Emptiness, gives thoughts of a need to fill up that emptiness feeling. So, questions approach your thoughts.

 Then, I read a thought on a daily calendar, that I have. That action( of reading positive thoughts) is one of my first BIG adult recalls, of connecting, with the energy, that I really am, as I read positive thoughts that others had written.
That day on Earth or in Human time, after reading the thought of the day, the energy of my true existence, was brought to me or I connected to it!! Also, I received  a beautiful sign or feeling that lifted the loneliness, (or I felt myself, on a higher plane), that was something that always gives me a smile, a bird. The bird was outside my window. (I guess you could say a sign to smile or a sign that I am not alone.)
When I am NOT on what I believe as a spiritual level, I do what I figured out recently, as part my purpose here, I Motivate, myself. (  motivating in general, I believe is a purpose I have.)
So, when I said for a usual circumstance ENJOY, truly. Every day actions need to be enjoyed !!!


Listen, be there, appreciate, and see. A few motivating actions!!
After, one time in my life, really strongly feeling non-motivation (for around one year), I do not let myself  SIT, in discomfort, for LONG.
Hence, motivation of some kind, occurs.
So, what I also saw through a common motivating action of mine,  I was cleaning some dishes and the awareness that became strong, over the last year, was the fact that I, during cleaning, I MEDITATE.

I listen, for the answers, to get results. (In this case, for removing the discomfort that I had.) To add to the listening for positive, occurring, Then, I read that thought, that I read.

So, the knowledge, I have proved or remembered is that not everyone has the same way, of  taking action, to get the goal that they want. There has been MANY descriptions, on HOW to meditate. There's no right or wrong, if your goal has been reached. This goes for anything in life, then you have accomplished.

Now, any usual circumstance you are in, BE IN IT !! Be NOW !! Truly ENJOY !!!

Motivating Opimism is not a simple course. So, that is simalar, to the role that the word MOM was given to, in Humanity. This description, of mine,  of the word mom is what I was given after the loss of  a good man. That man lost his life senselessly. Fear and negativity of a young human( the young man that did the shooting), he felt what he interpreted as love, with another, BOTH of them, being young. Control, took over his perspective, which is is part of human ego. Love is spiritual. Love is our true being. Our true being does NOT control!!

So, in our course of humanity, in either, of these descriptions of a human word, CONTROL is not a part of this !! When you motivate an action you don't have control over that action or the person you are attempting to inspire, in the role you are talking about. I would hope this makes sense. Usually passing on suggestions, can be possible, or showing positive actions, that inspire, NOT control.

Love.
(This purpose I have seen, for myself, I said it is: )
ALL MOM.....
A
Loving
Look at

Motivating
Optimistic
Mentality

What is the ENERGY you feel as you wake up in the morning ??

Do you have awareness of the energy around you??
The fact of not not having awareness of the energy, around you and then possibly acting what could be kind of negative, does that possibly give you a perspective that insight on this might be necessary.
If you didn't act negative but stayed conscious of the energy, maybe it is giving awareness of  surrounding circumstances.

Motivating is an essential act in our human experience. To keep the human livelihood, you motivate, to go to a job, to pay the bills. I remember when that was even a little difficult in my human experience. So motivation is a step that is I would say a start. The first action. Moving acts.
Is there a feeling of not having a desire to motivate or move? Seeing, what is bringing that into your energy space is part, of changing motivation.

I had an accident in my life, which was not a real bad one, yet it took me from any motivating ability.
At that time, in my life I took a pen in hand to regain an Attitude of Gratitude and wrote suggestions to Bring "Happiness" back to my human experience.


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It was one of my first # lightbulbmoments  like Oprah would say.

I wrote to get out of what felt uncomfortable, in my life, prior to the writing in 1999. I wrote a lot in my life. So writing is one of my motivators. Finding one is a positive assistant.

Hope you find yours....
Mom


Motivating
Optimistic
Mentality

Moving on as

M
O
M

Motivating optimism is something that in this Human condition, it gets intercepted.

Here are some of the Barriers....( or interruptions that are possible)

FEAR...
Breaking fear down to many the characteristics, in which fear shows it's face...
It's EGO that brings on these characteristics.

These are a few, Overthinking, thinking perfect is an option, Nerves , negative thinking, and controlling actions.

A situation or story line in your life, that activates these characteristics. I don't call them feelings because that is not what they are. The feelings that you have, can lead to the characteristics, that I brought up. When you feel sad, for instance, you can have each of those characteristics happen.

I am sure many more could be listed. Think about this, from the perspective of the title, of the word that I used as my acronym for my purpose. Raising a child we REALLY overthink it. Imagine if you let love, take it's course and stayed, in the moment. You are giving perspectives to this new being, in this human experience and perfect is another human perspective, that you believe you want to pull
off. Guess what, YOU and that other HUMAN being are already perfect, hence the spiritual being that you ARE !!! It is such a difficult job, passing on things to a human that is changing, growing all the time. So, you can hear thoughts in your mind,
( which is ego) that can be really negative!!

 A TRUE example of a negative thought that I heard, was said in a terrible situation ( nothing to do with parenting)  it was " you took her away from me." One human, really doesn't take another human, from another, circumstances of the Human condition, do. If what you are doing isn't working, IT isn't working and with learning a loving way, to change the situation, motivating an Optimistic CHANGE, without control, is what will work!

How I find that is through the good energy that is in and around me and not giving strength to the bad energy. Which, I realized THAT is motivating OPTIMISM, mentally.

As a mom and a person that became one, YOUNG. I have always learned to take what I have and be creative. Making the old, NEW again....

Here is my latest idea. My light bulb moment that I know I am meant to write about.

Being:

A
Loving
Learning of

Motivation of
Optimistic
Mentality............ALL MOM, wow, what a concept !!!

Wow, an interpretation of my purpose....

You probably came to my posts because you are a mom. Well, Moms are a role that will gain a lot from what I have to share. One of the best ways to walk through the role of motherhood is to STAY optimistic !! Find the ways around you, always, to stay optimistic.

When I was a young mom, I let fear take my optimism, from me!! Don't step into fear. If you have already, then turn away from it DON'T sit in it, don't let fear control your actions.
If you can believe in a power that is higher then YOU, is with you always, a part of YOU, grab that NOT fear !!
Since, I made mistakes, due to fear, In my motherhood role, in my human condition, I want to speak out on HOW you don't need to make those mistakes.

During some of my beginning mistakes, one mistake was inviting an abuser, in my life, I picked up a pen. That was one of my surviving tools. It brought me to the PRINCIPLES that were always in me. The power that is me. The connected consciousness, that brought the spiritual beings that  YOU and I are, into this HUMAN condition. And when we were brought here, we had a mission, a purpose. The purpose is not as lengthy and as deep a definition, as you think. It can be the main simple purpose of us all....

LOVE......

On a day that the Human Condition and the greeting card companies started, maybe to bring their intent.....


Happy Valentines Day !!

The role of Motherhood is a very difficult role.

The biggest benifit, of LOVE, is why the role of Motherhood, comes with acceptance and gratitude.

Wow.... Since it is hard to begin this I felt that " WOW"  is the most accurate way to.
The title of a Mom is given when a child comes into ones life. This child comes with no manual.
So, turning that title, that a person is given, then, upside down to WOW is also very appropriate and earned! I am saying this generalizing. There a dad's that are mom-roled.

The first perspective, that I have is: pregnancy, does not always mean that you are capable to fulfill the role, of being a mom. When pregnancy is not expected, to really know, as much, about the responsibilities of a mom, is important.

So, after knowing what the role entails, do you have Acceptance and Gratitude??

One of the hardest decisions in a women's life, when there is unexpectedly pregnancy is:
"what is next."

Decisions, especially important ones, many facts should be looked at. Another way to go is to reach out to a power greater then yourself. We are spiritual beings, in the Human condition. The bigger plan of a higher power and another spirit, coming to Humanity is: the course that is starting. Are you the host, of the being or are you to be in the role of one of the HARDEST roles, ever.

With the awareness I have now, in my life, I have my experience, to describe, on how it is difficult to 

raise a child, yet My awareness realizes the plan is / was as it was to be.


The hindsight perspective that I have is: I wish that, that spiritual awareness that I have opened big,



could have come about as I was doing the raising of my children.

So, now, I have had what a lot of people have heard Oprah call a BIG light bulb moment!!

I have seen what my purpose is to be. I always thought since I was a little girl that I was supposed to be mom. It is not like the Human role I took on when I was seventeen, though.

A

Mentally
Optimistic
Motivator.


The signs were apparent to me, as a person that was fantastic, in Humanity passed on through a tragic incident. Prayer,  medidation all the ways connection,  with spirituality that occurs, have grown ( as I remembered my plan)  more and more, in me, for the last 29 years. As I stated, during this strong connection, after the passing of this former neighbor, friend and good man, I knew or remembered that I was to be Mom. I have been given writing with my connection so strongly that the pen or my hands on the keyboard, move, without my human control, a higher power, forsure. This brutal act of 2 people, brought me to the fact that I want to do work with abused humans, passing on knowledge of how not to accept bullying or abuse, in your life.
Hence the mentally Optimistic motivating. Fear is nothing but lack of faith or not giving it credit.  Take fear away, moving into optimism, mentally. Motivate yourself, instead of letting fear, stop you.