Have you during this celebration of love, thought of your first love. It was of course possiblely your significant parent. In my case that was my mom. It doesn't have anything to do with the sex that the person was. It had to do with you, in the human form, that you started feeling something terrific, towards someone else in the same form.
I want to come out and say "Everyone" look back at those times and keep them, some way!
I am going to share a bit of mine, right now.
I believe, we think that they are here forever. Invincible!!! They aren't. So, if you want to know stories, of their time here, ask them!!
I did some of that. What I did not do is take time with my mom near the end of her time here. I feared the loss. So, I took myself from time with her, so an emotional part of me, I guess, could be protected.
My mom became disabled at the age I am. So, knowing that, " moments" have turned more significant, in a way, for me. I was closest to my youngest Grand Daughters age, when that happened so I have some understanding of why it was difficult. At that age you are entering one of the the greatest life experiencing times, Adulthood.
Seeing the age I was and relating to this story of my life, has given me a different relevance, ( to people and ages), if that makes sense.
See, my Mom had me close to the age my oldest daughter is. My mom had me at 43.
So, ask stories of a adult figure, in your life. Or as I heard the other day people are doing more of this with people, in general. Learn what you can, see what could be important to some experiences of yours. Appreciate the experiences that they saw.
Hold "LOVE" tight, always, not just on a specific day. "Peace, hope, love....all..".........
Saturday, February 11, 2017
Friday, December 9, 2016
Working towards Elegant
I don't know about you, but as a mom Elegance is not something that comes to mind, in very many areas of my life.
Today, I received a perspective towards Elegant that would work for me and maybe you, also.
Working towards:
Ease with
Leaving
Gifts of
Accepting
NOW,
Truly !!
Putting acceptance, in any of life's actions is something that when thought about, does not come easy. Maybe, another of my writings can help. To not agonize over it. Which is In my writings titled, "Live".
"Ease", freedom from pain or discomfort.
Accepting now, instead of analyzing it or worrying about it or agonizing over it !! To truly do that is to take action towards a new moment. I don't mean hastfully, yet, I do mean to move on. That can, from what I see when I do it, add an Elegance almost to each new moment whether it was with a bit of the defining that I gave here, in an acronym form or with what the word Elegance was given as a
definition, really.
I have for around the last year ( more often), been sent these acronym forms of messages while I clear my mind, from what I believe is a creative, higher source. Any writing I do is an energy working through me, totally detaching from my ego!!
Elegantly listen.
Today, I received a perspective towards Elegant that would work for me and maybe you, also.
Working towards:
Ease with
Leaving
Gifts of
Accepting
NOW,
Truly !!
Putting acceptance, in any of life's actions is something that when thought about, does not come easy. Maybe, another of my writings can help. To not agonize over it. Which is In my writings titled, "Live".
"Ease", freedom from pain or discomfort.
Accepting now, instead of analyzing it or worrying about it or agonizing over it !! To truly do that is to take action towards a new moment. I don't mean hastfully, yet, I do mean to move on. That can, from what I see when I do it, add an Elegance almost to each new moment whether it was with a bit of the defining that I gave here, in an acronym form or with what the word Elegance was given as a
definition, really.
I have for around the last year ( more often), been sent these acronym forms of messages while I clear my mind, from what I believe is a creative, higher source. Any writing I do is an energy working through me, totally detaching from my ego!!
Elegantly listen.
Thursday, August 11, 2016
Cauliflower Pizza
so, here is my posting on
Cauliflower Pizza.
I am a visual person ( and I thought some of you that find this might be also) and I also maybe changed some things, on the recipes, that I found, So, I figured I would post my experience, with the help of two recipes I found.
One from popsugar.com and one from food network.
Which consists of:
5 cups of Cauliflower For one round 12 inch pizza
2 cups of Mozzarella Cheese
1/4 of grated Parmesan
1 tsp. of Italian Seasoning
1/2 tsp. of garlic powder
3 lightly beaten eggs.
Here it is:
starting with the Cauliflower:
I went through the attempting to chop it. Which was fine but would have been real time consuming,
decided to cut the time, by using my Ninja.
So, I used 5 cups of the Cauliflower, (Add it after the Cauliflower is Microwaved, for about 7- 8 minutes and cooled.) 2 cups of Mozzarella. 1/4 cup of Parmesan. 3 eggs,( lightly beaten) and 1 tsp. of Italian seasoning ( or Oregano) and 1/2 tsp. of Garlic powder,
Microwave the cauliflower for 7-8 minutes. I patted it in case there was any moisture, just with paper towels.
I used a 16 by 11 cookie sheet lined with Parchment paper. The second one I made on a 12 inch pizza pan. Bake at 400 degrees to 425, for about 15 to 20 minutes.
I divided it up in to individual servings and what could be cheese bites/ sticks,(remember it is cauliflower, so they weren't like cheese sticks.
You can put what you want on as toppings. I then cooked it,on my Pizza Maker' because it was a hot day. I even put it in the fridge till time to have dinner.
I did also, save part to test Freezing it and then, cooking it on my pizza maker, also and the results were great!! I cooked it alone for about 10 minutes and then topped it and cooked on the settings, for the top only, to cook the toppings, only. (about 10 minutes )
ENJOY !!!
I am a visual person ( and I thought some of you that find this might be also) and I also maybe changed some things, on the recipes, that I found, So, I figured I would post my experience, with the help of two recipes I found.
One from popsugar.com and one from food network.
Which consists of:
5 cups of Cauliflower For one round 12 inch pizza
2 cups of Mozzarella Cheese
1/4 of grated Parmesan
1 tsp. of Italian Seasoning
1/2 tsp. of garlic powder
3 lightly beaten eggs.
Here it is:
starting with the Cauliflower:
I went through the attempting to chop it. Which was fine but would have been real time consuming,
I did also, save part to test Freezing it and then, cooking it on my pizza maker, also and the results were great!! I cooked it alone for about 10 minutes and then topped it and cooked on the settings, for the top only, to cook the toppings, only. (about 10 minutes )
Monday, November 30, 2015
Turn On:
For
A
Usual
Circumstance
ENJOY
TRUELY !!!
A faucet, what a crazy way to come up with something positive, isn't it!! Yet it is completely a acceptable or perfect description of USUAL. ( one of many "usual" areas a person could have, in there life.) Also, I probably picked a Faucet, because I got a brand new one, so a faucet, which could be usual, became exciting to me. I clean houses for an income, financially, for the last 30 years. I am at a sink a good amount of the time, while in any particular home. So, when I go home you would think that is the last place I would want to be. Well, within the last 8 years, cooking and gardening have been strong in my personal life. You might be saying how old is this person. If she has had a job for the last 30 years, she is at the least 50. So, why was cooking not as big, for the first part of this persons life. The answer to that is, I was an unexpected mom at the age of 17. I went into it with all desire to do the very best I could with these hard RESPONSIBLE circumstances. I loved children, I was an Aunt at the age of 7???...and I loved the TITLE of Aunt Susie. It was a compliment to me. A title that meant a lot. I had others looking up to me and loving me. Yet, ROUTINE of motherhood did not at that time motivate routine of great cooking.
I kind of took on the responsibility, without a LOT of what could be considered RIGID actions with the responsibility.
So, that is the outlook I am attempting to state with my saying "Turn on the Faucet".
I am going to describe how I looked at life as the young mother, after the honeymoon period. During a time, that maybe fear creeped in, to the responsibility, I started to hate "RIGID", "Responsibility" or what I even labed as the "R " words, that life gives you. So, no more detail is needed there right now, that will be part of future writing or another LONG story, that I will maybe, edit, some day, cause I already wrote it. So, getting by in the kitchen was the choice I made instead of being pretty RIGID. (To respond to the not cooking, much, till 8 years ago.)
We can either go into something with fear and because of that hate the rigidity, of the circumstance or we can go in to it, with .......
Optimism.....
As humans we are not always optimistic. An awareness came one day, When I didn't feel a strong urge of optimism. Even through actively adding that in my life for 30 years. (In fact, I can see how someone with a job of telling jokes, for a living (passing on humor), could even struggle.)
When going through similar to what I had felt other times , which was a loneliness feeling, because of not being around others, ( humans) physically. I then had an empathy with someone that provides humor, when feeling that which they can also, it can cause an empty space or feeling. Emptiness, gives thoughts of a need to fill up that emptiness feeling. So, questions approach your thoughts.
Then, I read a thought on a daily calendar, that I have. That action( of reading positive thoughts) is one of my first BIG adult recalls, of connecting, with the energy, that I really am, as I read positive thoughts that others had written.
That day on Earth or in Human time, after reading the thought of the day, the energy of my true existence, was brought to me or I connected to it!! Also, I received a beautiful sign or feeling that lifted the loneliness, (or I felt myself, on a higher plane), that was something that always gives me a smile, a bird. The bird was outside my window. (I guess you could say a sign to smile or a sign that I am not alone.)
When I am NOT on what I believe as a spiritual level, I do what I figured out recently, as part my purpose here, I Motivate, myself. ( motivating in general, I believe is a purpose I have.)
So, when I said for a usual circumstance ENJOY, truly. Every day actions need to be enjoyed !!!
Listen, be there, appreciate, and see. A few motivating actions!!
After, one time in my life, really strongly feeling non-motivation (for around one year), I do not let myself SIT, in discomfort, for LONG.
Hence, motivation of some kind, occurs.
So, what I also saw through a common motivating action of mine, I was cleaning some dishes and the awareness that became strong, over the last year, was the fact that I, during cleaning, I MEDITATE.
I listen, for the answers, to get results. (In this case, for removing the discomfort that I had.) To add to the listening for positive, occurring, Then, I read that thought, that I read.
So, the knowledge, I have proved or remembered is that not everyone has the same way, of taking action, to get the goal that they want. There has been MANY descriptions, on HOW to meditate. There's no right or wrong, if your goal has been reached. This goes for anything in life, then you have accomplished.
Now, any usual circumstance you are in, BE IN IT !! Be NOW !! Truly ENJOY !!!
For
A
Usual
Circumstance
ENJOY
TRUELY !!!
A faucet, what a crazy way to come up with something positive, isn't it!! Yet it is completely a acceptable or perfect description of USUAL. ( one of many "usual" areas a person could have, in there life.) Also, I probably picked a Faucet, because I got a brand new one, so a faucet, which could be usual, became exciting to me. I clean houses for an income, financially, for the last 30 years. I am at a sink a good amount of the time, while in any particular home. So, when I go home you would think that is the last place I would want to be. Well, within the last 8 years, cooking and gardening have been strong in my personal life. You might be saying how old is this person. If she has had a job for the last 30 years, she is at the least 50. So, why was cooking not as big, for the first part of this persons life. The answer to that is, I was an unexpected mom at the age of 17. I went into it with all desire to do the very best I could with these hard RESPONSIBLE circumstances. I loved children, I was an Aunt at the age of 7???...and I loved the TITLE of Aunt Susie. It was a compliment to me. A title that meant a lot. I had others looking up to me and loving me. Yet, ROUTINE of motherhood did not at that time motivate routine of great cooking.
I kind of took on the responsibility, without a LOT of what could be considered RIGID actions with the responsibility.
So, that is the outlook I am attempting to state with my saying "Turn on the Faucet".
I am going to describe how I looked at life as the young mother, after the honeymoon period. During a time, that maybe fear creeped in, to the responsibility, I started to hate "RIGID", "Responsibility" or what I even labed as the "R " words, that life gives you. So, no more detail is needed there right now, that will be part of future writing or another LONG story, that I will maybe, edit, some day, cause I already wrote it. So, getting by in the kitchen was the choice I made instead of being pretty RIGID. (To respond to the not cooking, much, till 8 years ago.)
We can either go into something with fear and because of that hate the rigidity, of the circumstance or we can go in to it, with .......
Optimism.....
As humans we are not always optimistic. An awareness came one day, When I didn't feel a strong urge of optimism. Even through actively adding that in my life for 30 years. (In fact, I can see how someone with a job of telling jokes, for a living (passing on humor), could even struggle.)
When going through similar to what I had felt other times , which was a loneliness feeling, because of not being around others, ( humans) physically. I then had an empathy with someone that provides humor, when feeling that which they can also, it can cause an empty space or feeling. Emptiness, gives thoughts of a need to fill up that emptiness feeling. So, questions approach your thoughts.
Then, I read a thought on a daily calendar, that I have. That action( of reading positive thoughts) is one of my first BIG adult recalls, of connecting, with the energy, that I really am, as I read positive thoughts that others had written.
That day on Earth or in Human time, after reading the thought of the day, the energy of my true existence, was brought to me or I connected to it!! Also, I received a beautiful sign or feeling that lifted the loneliness, (or I felt myself, on a higher plane), that was something that always gives me a smile, a bird. The bird was outside my window. (I guess you could say a sign to smile or a sign that I am not alone.)
When I am NOT on what I believe as a spiritual level, I do what I figured out recently, as part my purpose here, I Motivate, myself. ( motivating in general, I believe is a purpose I have.)
So, when I said for a usual circumstance ENJOY, truly. Every day actions need to be enjoyed !!!
Listen, be there, appreciate, and see. A few motivating actions!!
After, one time in my life, really strongly feeling non-motivation (for around one year), I do not let myself SIT, in discomfort, for LONG.
Hence, motivation of some kind, occurs.
So, what I also saw through a common motivating action of mine, I was cleaning some dishes and the awareness that became strong, over the last year, was the fact that I, during cleaning, I MEDITATE.
I listen, for the answers, to get results. (In this case, for removing the discomfort that I had.) To add to the listening for positive, occurring, Then, I read that thought, that I read.
So, the knowledge, I have proved or remembered is that not everyone has the same way, of taking action, to get the goal that they want. There has been MANY descriptions, on HOW to meditate. There's no right or wrong, if your goal has been reached. This goes for anything in life, then you have accomplished.
Now, any usual circumstance you are in, BE IN IT !! Be NOW !! Truly ENJOY !!!
Sunday, February 22, 2015
Motivating Opimism is not a simple course. So, that is simalar, to the role that the word MOM was given to, in Humanity. This description, of mine, of the word mom is what I was given after the loss of a good man. That man lost his life senselessly. Fear and negativity of a young human( the young man that did the shooting), he felt what he interpreted as love, with another, BOTH of them, being young. Control, took over his perspective, which is is part of human ego. Love is spiritual. Love is our true being. Our true being does NOT control!!
So, in our course of humanity, in either, of these descriptions of a human word, CONTROL is not a part of this !! When you motivate an action you don't have control over that action or the person you are attempting to inspire, in the role you are talking about. I would hope this makes sense. Usually passing on suggestions, can be possible, or showing positive actions, that inspire, NOT control.
Love.
(This purpose I have seen, for myself, I said it is: )
ALL MOM.....
A
Loving
Look at
Motivating
Optimistic
Mentality
What is the ENERGY you feel as you wake up in the morning ??
Do you have awareness of the energy around you??
The fact of not not having awareness of the energy, around you and then possibly acting what could be kind of negative, does that possibly give you a perspective that insight on this might be necessary.
If you didn't act negative but stayed conscious of the energy, maybe it is giving awareness of surrounding circumstances.
Motivating is an essential act in our human experience. To keep the human livelihood, you motivate, to go to a job, to pay the bills. I remember when that was even a little difficult in my human experience. So motivation is a step that is I would say a start. The first action. Moving acts.
Is there a feeling of not having a desire to motivate or move? Seeing, what is bringing that into your energy space is part, of changing motivation.
I had an accident in my life, which was not a real bad one, yet it took me from any motivating ability.
At that time, in my life I took a pen in hand to regain an Attitude of Gratitude and wrote suggestions to Bring "Happiness" back to my human experience.
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00IGZ0BNM/ref=wl_it_dp_o_pC_nS_ttl?_encoding=UTF8&colid=12B6KECMCIWU9&coliid=I3KI4GACJYVUWV
(You can copy and paste this in a browser, to see the page.)
It was one of my first # lightbulbmoments like Oprah would say.
I wrote to get out of what felt uncomfortable, in my life, prior to the writing in 1999. I wrote a lot in my life. So writing is one of my motivators. Finding one is a positive assistant.
Hope you find yours....
Mom
Motivating
Optimistic
Mentality
So, in our course of humanity, in either, of these descriptions of a human word, CONTROL is not a part of this !! When you motivate an action you don't have control over that action or the person you are attempting to inspire, in the role you are talking about. I would hope this makes sense. Usually passing on suggestions, can be possible, or showing positive actions, that inspire, NOT control.
Love.
(This purpose I have seen, for myself, I said it is: )
ALL MOM.....
A
Loving
Look at
Motivating
Optimistic
Mentality
What is the ENERGY you feel as you wake up in the morning ??
Do you have awareness of the energy around you??
The fact of not not having awareness of the energy, around you and then possibly acting what could be kind of negative, does that possibly give you a perspective that insight on this might be necessary.
If you didn't act negative but stayed conscious of the energy, maybe it is giving awareness of surrounding circumstances.
Motivating is an essential act in our human experience. To keep the human livelihood, you motivate, to go to a job, to pay the bills. I remember when that was even a little difficult in my human experience. So motivation is a step that is I would say a start. The first action. Moving acts.
Is there a feeling of not having a desire to motivate or move? Seeing, what is bringing that into your energy space is part, of changing motivation.
I had an accident in my life, which was not a real bad one, yet it took me from any motivating ability.
At that time, in my life I took a pen in hand to regain an Attitude of Gratitude and wrote suggestions to Bring "Happiness" back to my human experience.
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00IGZ0BNM/ref=wl_it_dp_o_pC_nS_ttl?_encoding=UTF8&colid=12B6KECMCIWU9&coliid=I3KI4GACJYVUWV
(You can copy and paste this in a browser, to see the page.)
It was one of my first # lightbulbmoments like Oprah would say.
I wrote to get out of what felt uncomfortable, in my life, prior to the writing in 1999. I wrote a lot in my life. So writing is one of my motivators. Finding one is a positive assistant.
Hope you find yours....
Mom
Motivating
Optimistic
Mentality
Monday, February 16, 2015
Moving on as
M
O
M
Motivating optimism is something that in this Human condition, it gets intercepted.
Here are some of the Barriers....( or interruptions that are possible)
FEAR...
Breaking fear down to many the characteristics, in which fear shows it's face...
It's EGO that brings on these characteristics.
These are a few, Overthinking, thinking perfect is an option, Nerves , negative thinking, and controlling actions.
A situation or story line in your life, that activates these characteristics. I don't call them feelings because that is not what they are. The feelings that you have, can lead to the characteristics, that I brought up. When you feel sad, for instance, you can have each of those characteristics happen.
I am sure many more could be listed. Think about this, from the perspective of the title, of the word that I used as my acronym for my purpose. Raising a child we REALLY overthink it. Imagine if you let love, take it's course and stayed, in the moment. You are giving perspectives to this new being, in this human experience and perfect is another human perspective, that you believe you want to pull
off. Guess what, YOU and that other HUMAN being are already perfect, hence the spiritual being that you ARE !!! It is such a difficult job, passing on things to a human that is changing, growing all the time. So, you can hear thoughts in your mind,
( which is ego) that can be really negative!!
A TRUE example of a negative thought that I heard, was said in a terrible situation ( nothing to do with parenting) it was " you took her away from me." One human, really doesn't take another human, from another, circumstances of the Human condition, do. If what you are doing isn't working, IT isn't working and with learning a loving way, to change the situation, motivating an Optimistic CHANGE, without control, is what will work!
How I find that is through the good energy that is in and around me and not giving strength to the bad energy. Which, I realized THAT is motivating OPTIMISM, mentally.
M
O
M
Motivating optimism is something that in this Human condition, it gets intercepted.
Here are some of the Barriers....( or interruptions that are possible)
FEAR...
Breaking fear down to many the characteristics, in which fear shows it's face...
It's EGO that brings on these characteristics.
These are a few, Overthinking, thinking perfect is an option, Nerves , negative thinking, and controlling actions.
A situation or story line in your life, that activates these characteristics. I don't call them feelings because that is not what they are. The feelings that you have, can lead to the characteristics, that I brought up. When you feel sad, for instance, you can have each of those characteristics happen.
I am sure many more could be listed. Think about this, from the perspective of the title, of the word that I used as my acronym for my purpose. Raising a child we REALLY overthink it. Imagine if you let love, take it's course and stayed, in the moment. You are giving perspectives to this new being, in this human experience and perfect is another human perspective, that you believe you want to pull
off. Guess what, YOU and that other HUMAN being are already perfect, hence the spiritual being that you ARE !!! It is such a difficult job, passing on things to a human that is changing, growing all the time. So, you can hear thoughts in your mind,
( which is ego) that can be really negative!!
A TRUE example of a negative thought that I heard, was said in a terrible situation ( nothing to do with parenting) it was " you took her away from me." One human, really doesn't take another human, from another, circumstances of the Human condition, do. If what you are doing isn't working, IT isn't working and with learning a loving way, to change the situation, motivating an Optimistic CHANGE, without control, is what will work!
How I find that is through the good energy that is in and around me and not giving strength to the bad energy. Which, I realized THAT is motivating OPTIMISM, mentally.
Saturday, February 14, 2015
As a mom and a person that became one, YOUNG. I have always learned to take what I have and be creative. Making the old, NEW again....
Here is my latest idea. My light bulb moment that I know I am meant to write about.
Being:
A
Loving
Learning of
Motivation of
Optimistic
Mentality............ALL MOM, wow, what a concept !!!
Wow, an interpretation of my purpose....
You probably came to my posts because you are a mom. Well, Moms are a role that will gain a lot from what I have to share. One of the best ways to walk through the role of motherhood is to STAY optimistic !! Find the ways around you, always, to stay optimistic.
When I was a young mom, I let fear take my optimism, from me!! Don't step into fear. If you have already, then turn away from it DON'T sit in it, don't let fear control your actions.
If you can believe in a power that is higher then YOU, is with you always, a part of YOU, grab that NOT fear !!
Since, I made mistakes, due to fear, In my motherhood role, in my human condition, I want to speak out on HOW you don't need to make those mistakes.
During some of my beginning mistakes, one mistake was inviting an abuser, in my life, I picked up a pen. That was one of my surviving tools. It brought me to the PRINCIPLES that were always in me. The power that is me. The connected consciousness, that brought the spiritual beings that YOU and I are, into this HUMAN condition. And when we were brought here, we had a mission, a purpose. The purpose is not as lengthy and as deep a definition, as you think. It can be the main simple purpose of us all....
LOVE......
On a day that the Human Condition and the greeting card companies started, maybe to bring their intent.....
Happy Valentines Day !!
Here is my latest idea. My light bulb moment that I know I am meant to write about.
Being:
A
Loving
Learning of
Motivation of
Optimistic
Mentality............ALL MOM, wow, what a concept !!!
Wow, an interpretation of my purpose....
You probably came to my posts because you are a mom. Well, Moms are a role that will gain a lot from what I have to share. One of the best ways to walk through the role of motherhood is to STAY optimistic !! Find the ways around you, always, to stay optimistic.
When I was a young mom, I let fear take my optimism, from me!! Don't step into fear. If you have already, then turn away from it DON'T sit in it, don't let fear control your actions.
If you can believe in a power that is higher then YOU, is with you always, a part of YOU, grab that NOT fear !!
Since, I made mistakes, due to fear, In my motherhood role, in my human condition, I want to speak out on HOW you don't need to make those mistakes.
During some of my beginning mistakes, one mistake was inviting an abuser, in my life, I picked up a pen. That was one of my surviving tools. It brought me to the PRINCIPLES that were always in me. The power that is me. The connected consciousness, that brought the spiritual beings that YOU and I are, into this HUMAN condition. And when we were brought here, we had a mission, a purpose. The purpose is not as lengthy and as deep a definition, as you think. It can be the main simple purpose of us all....
LOVE......
On a day that the Human Condition and the greeting card companies started, maybe to bring their intent.....
Happy Valentines Day !!
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